tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20167489206866048012024-02-20T22:47:06.642-08:00The CloudsShamim Miah http://www.blogger.com/profile/11270379556425917378noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2016748920686604801.post-76014978369944748222018-05-02T09:12:00.004-07:002018-05-02T09:17:33.501-07:00Is prison an university of life education? Take the good side!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Life is full of education, surprises, happiness and hard moments. There are moments that we cannot accept instantly, but those hard moments of life can be the key to your future success and wellness if you take the lessons from the struggle and respect what life is. Last year, I took control of my life and denied anyone who came on my way of how I want to live. I had to become strong and defeat anything that tried to change me into a week person again. I had succeeded, but failed to control my own ego and anger.<br />
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I forgot that I can be what I want without hurting others and that took me to a place where you are bound to become an ordinary and forced to choose out of two ways of life, 1) feel the justice and take right decision on a moment or 2) physiologically win everything doing what it takes. The 2nd one wasn't right and it takes away peace from you. So I decided to go back to my root and become a person of my choice.<br />
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Yes, prison helped me rediscover myself by taking away freedom and right of speech. I was not surely happy at the beginning, but slowly I found my way. I was there for six months and learned how justice can be applied to each moment of life by taking the right decision. </div>
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My first lesson was, you cannot win with anger. I was put into a hall room with 300 other people, all sharing one toilet and sleep in pile where you can hardly move. I was getting angry every moment and got in psychological fight with others. But slowly I noticed, they all had the same anger problem. I couldn't continue applying anger since there were people who had more anger than me. I had to think! </div>
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I realized I can control a situation by controlling my anger and fear of losing. I slowly transformed and discovered my inner strength where I have no complain of a situation. I started to make friends with the people who I had fight with at the beginning. I realized, a human being lives inside everyone. Some are sleeping, and some are awake! </div>
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I started to notice every little things such as why should I continue smoking cigarettes if it's really that bad for me! I started to gain the strength to beat an addiction. I found how my own ego was psychologically trying to win over other people, even though it was not necessary. I found a neutral place of mind where I had to take no action to be or prove myself. I realized how life listens to every thoughts, but in a slow action. I felt the wind of peace and serenity! </div>
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The biggest advantage in prison I had was that I was away from all the worries of struggle and social bindings. I did lose my physical freedom, but I experienced psychological freedom to think what is right and what is wrong. </div>
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Yet, I still remember the pain of being locked inside a specific area and rules made by others. But I saw justice! </div>
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